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Let’s be honest, navigating the complexities of intimate relationships is hard. While extremely rewarding, relationships require effort and work to maintain, and even the strongest couples can encounter obstacles that seem insurmountable. For some couples, external factors such as aging parents, young children, job loss, or financial difficulties can put increasing stress on the relationship. Other couples might experience persistent negative interaction patterns such as having the same fight over and over again or feeling like the other is too distant, too needy, or simply doesn’t understand you. Some couples might feel more like roommates than lovers and have concerns that the spark is gone, while others might be looking to open up their relationship and need guidance in doing so.
Regardless of the specific issue, couples therapy can provide you and your partner the support and space to explore, understand, and improve your relationship. The best time to start couples therapy is early! Too often, couples use therapy as a last resort. In reality, therapy has a higher chance of success when used proactively, and couples that start therapy before an issue becomes too severe, often report that it was one of the best things they did to strengthen their relationship.
Your Wakeful psychotherapist will first meet with you together and then separately. The purpose of this is to really understand your concerns and hopes for the relationship from every angle. At some point during these discussions, your psychotherapist will explain how the boundaries are managed in sessions and establish some basic ground rules for the meetings. One thing to note, there’s no “side-taking” for our psychotherapists. Sure, some of us have more work to do than others but side-taking and blame aren’t helpful, nor do they lead to healthy change. We work hard to avoid them and will talk with you so that you can understand and move beyond resentment or blame. Lastly, your Wakeful psychotherapist will work with you to set agreed upon goals. This way the work that you do together, separately, during a session or between sessions will be focused.
We take BCBS PPO plans, Aetna, Optum/United, Cigna and of course, private pay. We’re in process of getting credentialed with TriWest/TriCare and will update our list when it’s completed.
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